The characteristics which destroy the unity:
Impatience : impatience destroys unity because we won’t tolerate someone who can’t keep up with our expectations or who is weaker or slower or imperfect.
Unkindness : A person who is unkind is inconsiderate and harsh. Unkindness destroys unity by not letting people in the circle we don’t like.
Jealousy : A person who is jealous envies or covets or desires what someone else has. Jealousy destroys unity by keeping others out of our circle to punish them for having what we should have or wish we had.
Boastfullness: A person who is boastful is always heaping praise on himself. Being boastful destroys unity by setting ourselves up as most important.
conceited: A person who is conceited is proud, but maybe just in their heart. They are full of themselves too, puffed up with an exaggerated view of themselves, self-centered and snobby.
Just like bragging, being conceited destroys unity by putting ourselves up on the pedestal, and even if we don’t talk about our greatness we still expect others to recognize us as great. And if they don’t? They’re not included.
Rudeness: A person who is rude behaves disgracefully or discourteously; Rudeness destroys unity by never worrying about whether someone is left out of the circle in the first place.
Selfishness: In a lot of ways this characteristic motivates most of the others. A person who is selfish lacks consideration of others; they are primarily concerned with their own profit or pleasure.
Being Irritable: A person who is irritable is easily provoked to anger. Being irritable or angry helps to push others away. There won’t be any unity if everybody is mad at everybody else.
Bitterness : A person who is bitter is resentful because someone treated them bad of they feel like they didn’t get what they deserved. Bitter people are usually sour and spiteful. They are always taking to account the wrongs people have done to them. Like anger, bitterness will keep you away from everyone else. There won’t be any unity because no one will deserve to be united to you.
Immorality: A person who is immoral doesn’t conform to or accept standards of morality?—?right and wrong. Immorality or perverseness destroys unity by eroding any genuine foundation for unity. If there isn’t anything solid, any truth, if it is just all lies and half-truths then there is nothing to stand on.
Cynical: A cynical person is always doubtful and distrusting. They typically are concerned only with themselves and making themselves look good. So being cynical and pessimistic will destroy unity by negativity.
To sum up, If you want to unite the community then make sure you should not commit yourself to being impatient, unkind, jealous, boastful, proud, selfish, irritable, bitter, immoral, and cynical.
